Why the Apps Are Not the Problem
Apr 13, 2026
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The Truth About Meeting Men Online (And Why So Many Gay Men Keep Blaming the Wrong Thing)
One of the most common complaints I hear from gay men looking for love is this:
“The apps are the problem.”
“Nobody on the apps wants anything real.”
“The apps are only for hookups.”
“You can’t find a serious re...
From Chronically Single to #ProperlyPartnered
Jul 11, 2023
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The Techniques Gay Men Are Using to Break Free From Chronic Singlehood and Build Real Partnership
For over 25 years, I’ve worked as a psychologist helping gay men navigate relationships, sexuality, and the deeply human desire for love and connection.
Early in my career, I chose to deepen my expert...