Break the patterns that keep you single — and build real, lasting partnership.
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If you’re a single gay man who keeps meeting the same kind of men — unavailable, inconsistent, or not truly ready for a relationship — you’re not alone, and you’re not broken.
Many gay men stay stuck not because they haven’t met enough men, but because they’re unknowingly repeating the same unconscious habits, behaviors, and emotional patterns. These patterns quietly sabotage connection, even when you genuinely want something real.
I call these Chronically-Single Behaviors (CSBs).
CSBs influence who you’re attracted to, how you show up, what you tolerate, and why promising connections stall, fade, or turn into hookups instead of relationships. Over time, this creates frustration, loneliness, and the feeling that something must be wrong with you — even when you’re successful, attractive, and self-aware.
I’m Dr. Gregg A. Pizzi, a psychologist and relationship coach who specializes in helping gay men identify and change these patterns. I’ve worked with countless men who wanted a serious, emotionally available partner but kept ending up in the same cycle.
I’m also a gay man who spent years repeating my own patterns before understanding what actually needed to change — not in the men I was meeting, but in my relationship with myself and with connection. Once those shifts happened, everything changed, including the quality of partnership I was able to build.
Today, gay men of all ages are using this approach to step off the merry-go-round of meaningless connections and move toward real, grounded partnership.
My Expertise:
Helping single gay men break unconscious patterns and create real, lasting partnership.
Who I Work With:
Gay men who are ready to understand themselves more deeply and build emotionally mature connection.
To work together, this is important:
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You are a man ♂︎
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You identify as gay or bisexual 🌈
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You are currently single
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You are motivated to understand and shift your Chronically-Single Behaviors (CSBs)
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You are open, coachable, and willing to make changes in how you relate to men, connection, and intimacy
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You are curious about yourself as a growing, imperfect human being — and open to feedback and new perspectives
If you’re ready to step off the cycle of meaningless connections and move toward real partnership, you’re in the right place.
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Stop repeating the same patterns — and start building real partnership.
I’ve created a free 15-minute video where I explain why so many gay men stay stuck in cycles of short-lived connections — and what actually needs to change to move toward a real, emotionally available partner.
This isn’t about trying harder or meeting more men.
It’s about identifying and shifting the unconscious patterns that quietly keep you single.
Most men feel immediate relief once they finally understand what’s been blocking them.
🔒 Dr. Gregg will not spam, rent or sell your information.